Lean In, Lean Out

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When to lean in & when to lean out

‍Lean In with Intention – Lean Out with Perspective

We all naturally lean in (push forward, take action) and lean out (step back, reset) in different areas of life. The key is knowing when to do each—so that stress, challenges, and energy shifts work for you, not against you.

I developed the Lean In & Lean Out Method after experiencing burnout, anxiety, and a constant push-pull between overdoing and avoiding. I had moments of leaning in too hard—taking on too much, not knowing when to pause, pushing through exhaustion. And other times, I leaned out too much, disconnecting, procrastinating, or avoiding hard conversations. Neither extreme worked.

Through my own journey, I learned that balance is the key to energy, clarity, and flow. Now, I help others—whether it’s parents juggling life’s demands, corporate teams managing stress, or students navigating pressure—find their own rhythm of when to push and when to pause.

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What Is Lean In & Lean Out?

Most of us either push too hard (leading to burnout and frustration) or pull away too much (leading to avoidance and missed opportunities). This method helps you find the balance between action and pause—so you can move through life with more energy, clarity, and control.

It’s not about doing more or less—it’s about knowing when to lean in and when to lean out.

This Method Helps You:

Recognize Your Patterns – Are you constantly pushing or holding back?
Create Balance – Know when to step up and when to step back.
Move With Purpose – Stop reacting unconsciously—lean in with intention, lean out with perspective.

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When Do We Lean In?

Stepping into discomfort to grow and evolve
Taking action on things that truly matter
Pushing through fear to create positive change
Showing up for challenges with focus and purpose

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When Do We Lean Out?

Pausing to recharge and reset before burnout kicks in
Gaining clarity before making big decisions
Letting go of control when forcing things isn’t working
Creating space for new ideas, perspectives, and solutions

When you master this method, you stop operating on autopilot and start moving with intention—leading to better decisions, less stress, and more flow in your life.

When Leaning In & Leaning Out Works Against Us

Like anything, leaning in and leaning out can either serve us or hold us back—it all depends on how and when we do it.

🔹 Leaning In Too Much (Overdoing It):

  • Pushing through exhaustion, ignoring the need for rest
  • Forcing outcomes instead of allowing things to unfold naturally
  • Taking on too much responsibility, leading to burnout
  • Saying “yes” to everything to avoid discomfort or conflict

🔹 Leaning Out Too Much (Avoiding Growth):

  • Avoiding challenges that could help us grow
  • Withdrawing when things feel overwhelming instead of addressing them
  • Procrastinating important decisions out of fear of making the wrong choice
  • Numbing stress with distractions instead of facing what’s really going on

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Who Is This For?

This method is for anyone wanting more balance, energy, clarity, and control over stress. It’s a game-changer for:

🔹 Individuals – If you feel stuck, drained, or unsure when to act or step back, this will help you reclaim your energy and flow.

🔹 Parents – Balance the demands of parenting by knowing when to guide and when to let go, creating stronger connections with your kids while reducing stress and overwhelm.

🔹 Corporate Teams & Leaders – Learn how to balance high performance with well-being, so you can work smarter—not just harder. Teams become more productive, resilient, and engaged.

🔹 Educators & Students – Help students and teachers recognize stress patterns, regulate emotions, and create better learning environments with more clarity and focus.

🔹 Athletes & High Performers – Know when to push and when to recover, so you can perform at your best without burnout or injury.

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Why This Works

This method changed my life. After years of pushing too hard, running on stress, and feeling out of sync, I learned how to tune in to my nervous system, energy levels, and stress responses. Now, I teach this method to people of all ages so they can create more ease, freedom, and control in their own lives.

The Benefits of Lean In & Lean Out:

  • Deeper self-connection
    Learn to recognise your patterns, triggers, and how your body responds to stress—so you can respond, not react.
  • Clear, confident decision-making
    Know when to lean in and take bold action, and when to lean out and reset—without second-guessing yourself.
  • More energy and sustainable flow
    Ditch burnout cycles and learn how to create momentum that doesn’t drain you.
  • Less stress, more balance
    Reduce anxiety, overwhelm, and pressure with tools you can use anytime, anywhere.
  • Real joy and fulfillment
    Start showing up in a way that aligns with what truly matters—to you, your work, and your life.
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    What Others Are Saying

    "This method helped me balance training and recovery. I used to overtrain and then crash. Now, I know when to push myself and when to allow my body to recover. My performance has improved massively, and I feel so much more in tune with my body."

    James, Athlete

    "My son has struggled with anxiety for years, always overwhelmed and never knowing when to step back. Learning about Lean In & Lean Out has given him tools to manage stress, make clearer decisions, and feel more in control. I can’t thank Chris enough for this approach."

    Emma, Parent

    "As a teacher, I see students either over-engage to the point of stress or completely shut down. Since introducing this method, I’ve noticed a huge difference in how they manage challenges. They’re more aware of when to push forward and when to take a moment. It’s been a game-changer in the classroom."

    Sarah, High School Teacher

    "This was a great session, and we are all talking about Lean In & Lean Out daily. It makes so much sense and brings immediate clarity to discussions. I don’t know how we managed without it before! Last year’s session on breathwork was powerful, but adding this concept to our strategy review took it to another level. It’s now common language within our team and is helping leaders empower their people. The shift in self-awareness is huge and incredibly helpful."

    Peter McKendry, CEO, Co-Group

    ‍The Key Is Balance

    True balance isn’t about doing less or more—it’s about knowing when to lean in with intention and when to lean out with perspective. When you master this, you’ll move through life with greater ease, clarity, and confidence.

    Ready to See Where You Stand?

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    Lean In, Lean Out Coaching Packages

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    Individual Package – $600 (3 Sessions)

    For individuals ready to regulate, recharge, and realign.

    This 3-session package is for people who want to stop running on empty and start showing up with more clarity, calm, and confidence.

    We’ll explore how you personally lean in (push, overthink, overdo) and lean out (disconnect, avoid, withdraw)—and teach you how to shift between the two in a way that supports your nervous system, energy, and goals.

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    What’s Included:

    3 x Private Coaching Sessions (Tailored to your specific challenges & goals)
    Full Lean In, Lean Out Program (Practical exercises & mindset shifts)
    Breathwork Techniques or Journey for Stress & Focus
    Personalised Strategies for Work-Life Balance & Emotional Regulation‍‍

    Integration Plan to Apply What You Learn

    đź’¬ Perfect for anyone who feels overwhelmed, stuck, or constantly swinging between overcommitting and disengaging. Learn to manage your energy wisely.

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    Corporate / Teams Package – From $500

    Designed for: For leaders, teams, and workplaces ready to shift from burnout to balance…

    This session helps your team find the sweet spot between productivity and well-being—where high performance doesn’t come at the cost of health, energy, or connection.

    Through the Lean In / Lean Out method, your people will learn how to regulate pressure, improve focus, and show up more present and effective—both individually and as a team.

    Less stress. Better collaboration. Sustainable performance that lasts.

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    What’s Included:
  • Interactive Team Coaching Session (Live or Virtual)
    Engaging, experiential workshop tailored to your team’s needs
  • The Lean In / Lean Out Method for Teams
    Custom strategies to help your people balance productivity with sustainable energy
  • Breathwork & Energy Management Tools
    Learn how to down-regulate stress and up-regulate focus in real time
  • Team Engagement & Leadership Strategies
    Build a culture that supports nervous system safety, clarity, and cohesion
  • Post-Session Integration Guide
    Simple follow-up tools your team can use straight away to lock in the change
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    💬 Ideal for teams navigating high workloads, low morale, or ongoing burnout. When your people are regulated, focused, and connected—your business thrives.

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    Performance Package – $1000

    Designed for: For athletes, coaches, and high performers ready to master the mental game…

    This session is designed to help you unlock your next level by learning how to shift between high performance and deep recovery with precision.

    You’ll learn how to intentionally Lean OUT—reset your nervous system, shift brainwave states, and release pressure—so that when it’s time to Lean IN, you do it with clarity, power, and purpose.

    This is where the top 5% edge lives—in the space between effort and recovery, and knowing exactly how to move between the two.

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    What’s Included:

    • 2 x Private Coaching Sessions
      Sport-specific energy & mindset coaching tailored to your goals
    • Lean In / Lean Out Performance Framework
      Master the balance between drive and recovery for peak results
    • Breathwork for Competition & Recovery
      Boost focus, endurance, and calm under pressure
    • Mental Resilience Training
      Strengthen your response to setbacks and decision-making under stress
    • Custom Strategies for Sustainable High Performance
      Build habits that protect your body, mind, and mission

    💬 If you're an athlete or high performer who burns out before the finish line or struggles to reset after a loss—this will help you build the mindset and recovery rhythm to stay at your best.

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    Is This For You?

    • Feeling burnt out, scattered, or stuck in go-go-go mode?
    • Swinging between being “always on” and totally checked out?
    • Want to reset your energy, mindset, and focus?
    • Needing better strategies for work, leadership… or just life in general?

    If any of that hits home—it might be time to find your version of balance.

    Let’s work together to:

    • Regulate your nervous system
    • Recharge your energy
    • Shift how you show up in the moments that matter

    👉 Book your Lean In / Lean Out Package today and start making changes that actually stick.

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